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   The anger/abuse cycle is a common pattern of interaction between family members. Itis usually used as a jargon to describe domestic violence, but in fact it may 36 anyemotional or verbal form recurring in everyday household routines or parentingscenarios. For example, a mother may 37 her daughter for her irresponsibility forfamily chores, a father may explode in frustration at his son for 38 expectations. Suchoutbursts are really hurtful. And even when the parents knows they are verbally abusing thekid or after they promised themselves and their kid that they would not vent at him/her infrustration, they may be unable to stop themselves. Whenever faced with the similarsituations, they find themselves caught back up in anger on the scene and trapped infrustration as well. To break the 39 , members involved must figure it out before takingaction.     The anger/abuse cycle has three main phases: The problem, tension building, andreconciliation phases.     During the first phase, problems occurs in the life of every family individual or intheir interrelationships. Problems are a normal part of life, but if they add up too high oroccur too frequently, they can lead to expressions of anger. Of course, the expression canbe constructive if the parent/child has coping mechanisms which facilitate him/her to dealwith his/her own issues and 40 the differences or gaps of both generations. If themember is unable to cope, then he/she is left with the choice of escalating or moving intothe tension building phase. Ineffective coping ways may increase feelings of frustration andhelplessness if they feel they are "failures" because the ideas they came up with neverwork. Instead of being 41 , they, usually the dominant side, tend to regain the power byplaying the abuser. Then such strong yearning for senses of re-dominance and achievementmakes it very reasonable and necessary for the abusers to correct/criticize anything done bythe abused 42 to confess that they themselves need help, because seeking assistancerecalls their previous accumulative failure experiences, which exactly they’ve beenavoiding. To protect their bruised ego, the abusers will allow any trigger verbal interaction,no matter how trivial or irrelevant it may seem, 43 the spark that sets off an emotionalexplosion or release of tension.     Once the tension has been released, there comes the reconciliation stage, characterizedby guilt, remorse, and false promises. It is also called the honeymoon phase because bothsides experience low tension, happy moods, and false hope that the abuse is gone. Such amisleading impression 44 both sides into believing that everything has been resolved,but in fact the abuser’s deeper issues or the victim’s mental scars are left unaddressed and45 . Worse yet, this denial or unawareness and the inevitable recurrence of moreproblems causes the abuse cycle to start all over again.       After briefly informed of the whole process, abusers or verbal victims may 46approaching core problems of their own and of their interactions 47 the anger cycledeteriorate and cause tragedies to happen.
36.
(A) take
(B) come
(C) have
(D) show

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答案：[無官方正解]
難度：適中0.5
統計：A(0),B(0),C(0),D(0),E(0)

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